It seems like Christmas was just last month and now it's time to start thinking about it, again.
No pics this time, just an update. Sam's computer is being retarded and we don't have the money to replace it yet. He downloads the pics to his external drive so we don't lose them, but it's hard to search, etc because the stupid computer keeps crashing. Being broke sucks.
In August, the company that contracts Sam said they couldn't pay him as a contractor anymore due to IRS issues. They offered him a salary lower than we've made in over ten years, but it's not like there's anywhere else to go at the moment. So we took it. We got insurance (pretty marginal insurance, but it's better than nothing) and paid vacation out of the deal, but otherwise it's a lousy deal. They still have him contracted to Apple, though, and we kind of like that. They have a shuttle that runs up there from Gilroy, which saves us about $500/month in gas. They rarely want him to work weekends or nights, a rarity in Silicon Valley. I'm guessing they're still paying the contracting company by the hour, so they don't want to go crazy with his hours. There are people at Apple that, I swear, live there.
So, we've had to be on a really strict budget; something we're not great at. But, we're getting better. If we'd been on a strict budget for the last two years while we were making good money, we'd be in better shape becuase we'd have more stuff paid off. Hindsight is always 20/20 and I guess the Lord needed to rein us in a bit and make us be more responsible. I'm trying to learn what I need to from this, so we can move on to something else.
On the upside, if you have to be broke somewhere, this is the place. We got a beach five minutes away, great friends, a beautiful place to live where most people just get to come vacation. I see the cruise ships in Monterey harbor and think, "Ha! WE get to live here!" (Even as I'm trying to figure out how to sneak on and get dinner, lol). As Sam dreads the end of DST, which means it'll be dark when he gets home from work, we ramp up our beach visits. We go nearly everyday, as soon as he gets home, to watch the sunset, and hang out until it's just too dark. The sound of the waves reduces my stress level significantly and we always see a few "critters"; usually seals or otters. Last week, we were treated to dolphins, a rarity in the Bay.
This week is Halloween costume week. Meg wants to be Cleopatra...not surprising, considering her current love of all things Egyptian. This year, though, she will get to sew most of her costume herself. She's not a bad seamstress and seems excited about the prospect. We have almost everything already to make it, so we won't have to buy much, which is good. I'm a Halloween scrooge...I hate spending money on Halloween junk. Sam's pirate costume that I made last year got put away somewhere "safe", which means I'll spend my week looking for it.
Lastly, I have to announce that Sam is, officially, the best husband ever. He spent the weekend catching up the laundry that I've been getting behind on. I haven't felt great for the last couple of months and a lot of things have been sliding. He did all the laundry, and put it all away. I hate laundry and dishes becuase they are never done, and when I don't feel well, they are the last things to get done. Granted, he may have been desperate for something to wear, but rather than complain, he just washed it all. I LOVE that guy. Besides, he's cute. :0)